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Debbie Matenopoulos went behind the scenes of The Bachelor recently, getting host Chris Harrison to dish on tonight's racy episode.

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Fans have been salivating over last week's teaser, featuring Ben Flajnik and Courtney Robertson skinny dipping at night, but Chris revealed that the other girls are still clueless about the date.

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"Here's the thing, Courtney stole this time," Chris revealed. "She snuck out, so the other girls don't know about this."

Courtney has quickly become one of the most hated contestants on the show, being accused of playing dirty. Seeing all of this, Chris has found himself in a dilemma. While spending ample time with both sides, he has developed a relationship with Ben, but even though he doesn't want to see anyone get hurt, he has to try to stay neutral.

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"People say, 'Why don't you warn him? Why don't you say something?' In my opinion that's not what a friend should do," said Chris. "You don't just throw your opinion on somebody ... Because then they're just going to get defensive and they're going to run the opposite way."

Chris went on to admit that he does talk to Ben about the girls and the dates, but when debating who would make for the best match, Chris likes to pose questions to encourage a constructive conversation.

Watch the video to hear what Chris said about the chances of show romances surviving in the real world. Tune in to The Bachelor Mondays on ABC.